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Raw Vulnerability, Universal Relatability.
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Shannon O’Brien
Shannon shares the revelations that occur during her life journey. She believes that the reader will relate to her experiences, as well as gain beneficial strategies that will enable them to maneuver well in relationships, business and family.
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Praise from the literary community and readers.
★★★★★
RAW and COMPELLING! Reading It’s Not You, It’s Them is a deep dive into the author’s life and how her experiences have shaped the person she has become. Her honest account of the people and circumstances of her life will have you screaming support and vehemently encouraging her perseverance. Written in the first person, her words provide a gritty and unapologetically subjective voice to being mistreated, subjugated and underestimated. Her maturation forces her to navigate the world with pure tenacity and, in the end, you realize it truly is “them”.
Cheris J.
5 stars
★★★★★
Shannon delivers a heartfelt mix of memoir and practical advice on setting boundaries and reclaiming your voice. Her stories feel authentic and validating, especially for anyone who’s felt unseen or undervalued. Many of her stories lean on personal narrative however, the message is clear: stop shrinking and start thriving. It’s a bold, affirming read for those ready to honor their worth. Thank you for a great read!
Kim C.
5 stars
★★★★★
Excellent book, truthful and full of GAME. Books like this make me remember why I enjoy reading. It’s a must read and will impact the trajectory of how you think about life.
Phelisha L.
5 stars